Scam Cure


Education equals prevention when it comes to scams overseas.  The videos below are the very best on the subject of scams and how the “Mail Order Bride” industry works.

These presentations can save you thousands of dollars and a lot of heartache!


“Who Are the REAL Girls in the Profile Photos?”


“Insider Secrets to What’s Happening on the Other Side”

“Scams and the Games of the Mail Order Bride Industry”


“CATCH ME IF YOU CAN! Secrets of the Mail Order Bride Industry Revealed”


Whistle-blowing on International Online Dating Schemes 

I just received a quick review from one of the watchdogs of the international dating industry, David Brenner, and I wanted to share his comments regarding Dream Connections.

I don’t know David personally or have spoken with him yet, but his insights are important and show distinguishing traits that can be very educational for you:

I did a quick scan of your site and found no agency women. For those of you, who do not know the “lingo”. If you go to all the big scam sites that dominate the industry, you will start to see the same women. We call these women agency girls. They go from site to site to make money off of men who chat and write letters at each respective site.

I have to say I recommend Dream Connections as a dating agency. I will do more investigation and post information on my blogs and social networking pages. Understand gentlemen, I have not completed my analysis of Dream Connections. I am making a recommendation and simply stating the following;

1. The women are not agency girls. They do not appear to “professionals” coached or trained to drain money from you by getting you to write letters or chat.

2. Realistic ages, professions, etc. The pictures are professionally shot, but the women appear to be “real” in that they are not djs, party girls, ballerinas, etc. The types you know we do not have a chance in a hell at. These women are real Ukrainian women. I have met real Ukrainian women before. They are beautiful, caring, and down to earth.

3. Testimonials are more realistic than some crap from other sites. But I hope you guys make sure we can talk to some of the men who have used your services. That would be the clincher.

4. The real deal. We are actually having these conversations here. Other sites I’ve challenged no longer try to defend their unethical, immoral, and borderline illegal practices any longer on Youtube. They closed their videos to all conversation and no longer respond to any inquiries. Well, that’s because they are criminals.

David – thank you for taking the time to post some thoughts.  I hope we’ll have a chance to talk more in the future.


Interview with Rick Butts on His Investigation

Below is an interview I conducted with Rick Butts, who did his own investigative research into the working of the Ukrainian agencies while living there for three months.


How About the Domestic Online Dating Industry?

Check Out This Investigative Report:


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{ 21 comments… read them below or add one }

Tim October 5, 2013 at 12:03 am

oh you really know your stuff mark awesome in deed tim


Brian McKenzie October 5, 2013 at 3:47 pm

Ax the risk ‘free’ relationship of e-mail ……. probably with Boris who is pretending to be Marina from Maripol – be careful boys.

There was a perfect joy, in all the lies we told that never came true
in the times we tried to fool ourselves – with the veil of what was a Love
How your name burned across the sky – a flaming sun – baking an autumn season
That your eyes were the crisp blue of an ocean or of the heavens – surely a fib
And all the while I fell to the crimsoned henna in transfixed stare – clearly so
To the words that you whispered, that I believed and dreamed – ever more and still
For all the hope and hysteria – the drama and the play – lust and thick deceit
Never could they come to – never a reality – all the lies we made – all the life
Now it’s gone – smouldering hoax of a stageman’s sideshow illusion – fait accompli
So the curtain crashes yet again, intermission to a new act – same as before

These lies work again and again – because the American Dating scene is so blatantly – well – we all know what it is – abysmal.


Tim October 6, 2013 at 7:43 am

Hey Brian, you’re so right. I think dc is the only chance a man has to not be taken down by the big box tours; and writing letters online is crap. Just reformed low hanging fruit, man. Tim


sean March 5, 2014 at 11:42 pm

hi im sean.and I want a ukriane wife..i have been to ukriane 2 times and no luck..i went to Simferopol feb 2013 and kiev dec 2013 . but I use a hot Russian brides site..and even that I fell it is a scam..i did believe the dec in live .I did not even see the girl I went to see.she never show ,you no it is not the money, im a good man..and I just cant believe girls would lie so much for just a few dollars…but I no how much did the girl really get…I am not knew at took me 6 years to go..i just use sites..another site I don’t trust is love me..yo no in my life .I can feel when I am being lie to. but sometimes it takes me I am a good man and I no if a good woman would want me..but I do no it is hard to go to ukriane and just meet I do like that you have a lot of pictures of men with ladies they 52 and im looking for a lady around 30 to 38. I don’t have no kids..but I would love to have one with a ukriane woman..yes my family is against me going again..but I feel in my heart I want this..i just need help in a good place to help me fine her..and I feel this site is the tell me your cost and all that you offer.and what ever eles I need to no..i have been threw all of your site..waiting sean Gibson .I live in north Carolina usa


Dennis Jans March 9, 2014 at 2:38 am


Thanks for sharing your story. You can check the prices on both the group and individual tours (IQT) by going to the top of the page and clicking on QUEST TOURS and IQT. I am the director of the IQT individual quest tours, and would be happy to help you find your soulmate over in Ukraine. I can help you avoid all those nasty scams and have you meet some beautiful and sincere women looking for True Love and marriage. That is what this site is all about. Feel free to call or email us anytime.

Yours in the Quest,

Dennis Jans


Rex Hirahara March 9, 2014 at 2:33 am

What are some of the legitimate Ukraine dating sites?


Dennis Jans March 9, 2014 at 2:46 am


From my experience (10 years in the industry, been to Russia more than 20 times and Ukraine 10 times), I would say that almost all sites are a mixture of outright scammers, pro-daters and sincere girls. The task is to separate the good from the bad and then spend your time and efforts with the good girls. By doing this, you cn also save all the money wasted on online pursuits (chat and letter-writing), the vast majority of which is insincere and just a money grab. The only way to find a serious and sincere woman is to travel over to Ukraine and meet some ladies who have been screened for you prior to your trip. That’s what Dream Connections does! I don’t know any other site that rejects letter-writing and online chatting as a waste of time and money and guides men on an exciting romantic journey to find their life partner. Check this site out for more information.

Yours in the Quest,


Jay March 20, 2014 at 11:21 pm

Hi Mark,


Jay March 20, 2014 at 11:23 pm

Hi Mark,
I have been looking at different dating sites for Ukrainian women and have to ask, what is the major difference in your company and others?



Mark Davis March 21, 2014 at 8:30 am

There are several tour companies around the world. Here is what we do that is different:
1. We screen the men – only serious/relationship-minded men
2. We screen the women – only serious/relationship-ready women
3. We provide each client with a dedicated personal assistant for their entire week
4. We have a structure to our events so every man meets every woman who attends
5. We provide a pre-programmed local phone for each man to use and keep
6. We stay in one city for better chances of success
7. We have an 80% success rate in helping clients begin a new relationship
8. We provide professional coaching on-site during the Quest Tour
9. We provide community and support all the way through marriage
10. We provide advance training and preparation to better ensure your success

We only focus on the guys who are looking for a life partner while other tours:
1. Other companies don’t screen their men and allow sex tourists on tours
2. Other companies don’t screen the women who attend – at all
3. Other companies have clients packing up and moving to new cities every other day

Our focus is on creating more international marriages – not exotic vacations.

I hope that helps


Mark Davis February 19, 2015 at 6:22 am

I had a great email come in this morning from Wayne in Meridian, ID:

” I finally realized why I liked writing letters so much on these other sites – it was because that was the only way I could talk to a beautiful woman, even if it did go through a translator, or done by the translator. But you are right, they know how to write to appeal to us, even if the woman herself didn’t know anything about it.”

That attitude of scarcity is why men do it. They know it just feeds an artificial fantasy, but it also fills a void. I think of it more as the same reason men like webcam porn – they know they’re not going to see the woman on the computer at any point in their lifetime, but the fantasy feeds a void.

My advice, fill the void and get on a real plan. One of the great voids is simply that men don’t understand how to appropriately feed their soul’s need for beauty. Please watch this presentation sometime:



Eric A Gardner August 11, 2015 at 2:49 am

What is the name of your documentary? Where can it be viewed or purchased?


Mark Edward Davis August 11, 2015 at 7:37 am

It’s free – you just need to register to see it at:

Post your comments there on what you thought.


Chris Madsen August 25, 2015 at 6:43 pm

Probably the best analysis I have seen to date regarding online dating I felt this was the deal but I hadn’t spent the time looking into it.
I have been divorced and lived in three major cities. I have the resources to date and look for what I want and yet in 5 years using every dating site and spending months learning the skill set of PUA’s etc I have yet to find one decent girl to remarry. I’m not kidding. I am 6-6″ in shape and living in San Diego. Beautiful women everywhere but yet they are absolutely devoid of character and they all sleep with everyone and anyone. It is so easy to pick them up and it is no longer even a challenge. I truly feel sorry for them. I digress though. My point is you are so right about online dating and your point about “meeting in person” is right on point. Nice job!


A Medin November 15, 2015 at 5:13 pm

A comment and question. Guys…Cease worrying about the cost at Dream Connections and concentrate on the value of a lifetime with an ideal companion committed to you and the family you jointly create with an Ukrainian lady.
Lastly, still wondering about Victoria’s outcome, seen at 3:47 9/2014 tour. Lastly, did the tour guys on 11/2015 (not sure on date) come from US or Europe? Cheers !!!!


John December 12, 2015 at 8:15 am

I just came across your business last night and very intrigued by everything so far. I have been looking for love and happiness for quite some time but just like other guys I have been on the wrong sites. I am very In touch with the scams so I leave rather quickly before it hits my pockets. I will definitely be setting up a profile page here and will attend the next tour in Ukraine. Thank you for all the great videos and we’ll you have explained everything up to meeting your wife Mark. That has really helped me out with choosing your company. Hope to meet you in person soon. I’m so excited to have the opportunity to meet the woman I can have a wonderful life with on the next tour.


Doug January 5, 2016 at 4:58 am

I just found some of your videos on youtube. It seems you got the social down right. I went on two tours of Ukraine with one of the big companies. I found the socials to be very uncomfortable for both the women and the men. They force you to be aggressive and the women to be defensive. I met a couple great honest women but nothing panned out. I also met two or three scammers wanting my money. It was too hard to separate the good from the bad. Glad to see that someone is trying to get it right to make it easy for both men and women in getting what they really desire: A lasting love and relationship.


jason January 25, 2016 at 11:14 pm

I am 29 years old with a 3 year old little girl ive been thought one marriage were I was the punching bag, the yelling room, and treated like a door mate, used for my time, money, and broken down. I want to find a women that will like me for me not for the money. but the true connection to my heart. I only plan on getting married one more time.
I need help ive been to other sites, But after I saw the clip on YouTube you guys are the only ones I see that’s real. girls here in Atlanta ga were I am from want money and fake they like you I want to soulmate feeling not the used feeling, can you help a case like me out


Ole Johnny February 16, 2016 at 5:15 am

I am 34 years old. I have a son who is 7 years old and I have him every second weekend we are norwegian. I was wondering if you have had men from other countries like norway on tours?


John Henry Grzyb February 16, 2016 at 3:51 pm

Ole Johnny
We have had guys from 19 different countries attend our Quest Tours. All Countries are welcome on a Dream Connections Quest Tour


Jonathan Micheals February 22, 2016 at 11:33 am

I have some questions:
Is a woman more likely to be a scam if she is on several dating websites?
As the age of the woman increases is it less likely she is a scam (e.g., over 38 or 40)?
Are the women willing to move abroad or are they just saying that (same for not smoking, drinking, etc.)?
Will the woman perceive it to be odd (and possibly a deal breaker) if the man wants to wait until marriage to have sex?
How long of a courtship are the women expecting if the relationship is progressing toward marriage?



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